VALENTINE’S DAY

THE QUESTION:
“Any big (or small) plans for Valentine’s Day?”

Warning:
My opinion of this holiday is generally unpopular,
and some have even been offended by it! But to each their own.😉
Wishing all those who celebrate, a lovely Valentine’s Day! 💕💐

My husband and I have been together since 1971 and married since 1973. Not once have we wasted any energy on this “Hallmark Holiday”. It’s an over-hyped marketing ploy that pressures people into spending money to “prove” their love.

We prefer to celebrate love in our own time, not when the retail industry dictates we should! Instead of choosing one day with overpriced chocolates, flowers, and crowded restaurants, we treat ourselves throughout the year, including birthdays and anniversaries. Those are truly meaningful!

And what of the negative aspects? Valentine’s Day breeds unrealistic expectations and unnecessary drama. Forget to plan something “special”? You’re in the doghouse. It’s emotional blackmail! 🫤

For singles, the holiday is even worse—a constant reminder from society that being single = failure. Why should your happiness or value be tied to someone else? 🙄

And what about the children? Back in the stone age, when I was in elementary school, the students would exchange Valentine’s Day cards with their classmates. It was basically a popularity contest. Pity the poor child who came up short! 😞 Do they still have that tradition in schools?

What’s your take on Valentine’s Day?

MY ANSWER:

Super Bowl Commercials

I’m not a fan of American football, and didn’t watch the Super Bowl. The clever ads are always fun to see, though! 😀
As a proud Canadian, and given the current state of affairs, I LOVE this one! 🥰